Cool hour "No need to quarrel anymore" (2-4 cl)

Purpose:

• to introduce children to some ways of getting out of conflict situations;

Tasks:

• teach children to find a compromise;
• develop attentionческие, thinking, artistic abilities;
• cultivate a friendly attitude towards others.

Equipment: circles of green, blue, red (on the back side there is a little dark dye attached to the adhesive plaster) color; large syringe filled with whiteness; a proverb divided into words.

Class progress

We'll start our class with our self-esteem. Take a sheet with your name and attach a green circle in the center of the sheet if you think everyone around you treats you very well; blue circle - if not all people treat you well, red circle - if you think people treat you poorly.
I'm glad you all love yourself Really a person should respect and love. And now we're learning what classmates think of you.
Now we will put all your sheets on tables, and all the children will go through and attach the appropriate circle - attitude towards this person.
Look at your circles: what color predominates in you?
Did your opinion coincide with the opinion of your comrades?
Think about what flaw your comrades saw in you. We won’t tell anyone about this and will try to get rid of these traits. Take red mugs and put them in a jar of water. What did you notice? The water has darkened. You see, even water and that takes on negative information and changes its color. Water is considered a non-living object, but imagine what happens to living beings when you say bad words to them, offend them in word and deed? Don’t be upset, I’ll try to help you. Know that I will always come to your aid in any situation (the teacher drips a little liquid from a syringe). If you don’t know what to do right, you can always ask me, parents or older comrades. Try it, never do anything wrong with anyone else, because bad deeds and deeds will certainly come back to you. It’s not in vain and the topic of our lesson is "No need to quarrel anymore".
Today we will talk about why people quarrel and how this can be avoided.
Why do you think people quarrel?
Why can you quarrel with your parents?
With brother, sister? With buddy?
You can quarrel with anyone - it would be a .lany! It’s not difficult to do this at all. It’s much more difficult to make peace. Oddly enough, children succeed more easily than adults.
Remember what words of conciliation you know. ("Peace, Make Peace, Make Peace and Fight No More" Peace and Friendship - forever, well, a quarrel - never! ()
And yet some children are seriously experiencing quarrels?ra: upset, crying, losing their appetite, sleeping poorly. This can lead to any disease, so you should try to avoid quarrels. How to do this? First of all, you should learn to stop in time when your relationships with relatives or comrades become
"explosive"
In one good story, I read about a girl, Marusa, who learned to say the word "Stop!" before losing her temper. This truly magical word stopped her from doing rash things and helped her maintain a good relationship with others.
Let's practice telling ourselves "stop!" in time
Two students are offered using softшек toys - kitten and puppy - play following the following scenes:
1, "Puppy sleeps" At this time, the kitten approaches him
miske and begins to eat its contents. The puppy wakes up and attacks the kitten.
Think about how you could have avoided the brawl?
Students who find the right way out of the situation, are asked to play out this situation again, but with a different ending, using the magic word "stop!"
Example__ The puppy wakes up, he's ready to throw , drop on the kitten, but says "stop!" to himself, and then says in a calm , tone: "Good appetite! help you?" or "Can you continue if you're hungry,den, but next time you'll have to share with me"
2, "Puppy Sleeps. Kitten, infatuated with his play, runs around the apartment, makes noise, jokingly lashes out at the puppy, inviting him to play. But the puppy wakes up, barks displeasedly and throws himself at the kitten".
Those interested act out this scene by changing the ending, as well as using the word "stop!"
Example__A puppy woken up by a kitten, begs for a drink, barks, then says "stop!" to himself, then says in a steady voice: "I see you are in a good mood and I would love to play with you on the ,, but I’m very tired and I want to sleep. Don’t bother me, please or "When you sleep, I don’t disturb you. Be kind, don’t disturb me either".
Quarrels happen sometimes in our class too. By▁По try to find the right way out of the following situations.

• During a physical education lesson during the game, Yulia accidentally pushed Marina. Marina fell, began to cry, and was offended by Yulia. (Yulia should apologize to Marina, help her get up, ask if she's okay.)
• During recess, Slavik and Stasik simultaneously wanted to play with the same toy. They began to snatch it from each other's hands. (Boys,ki must make a deal to see who plays first and who plays second.)
• Andrey drew a portrait of Slavik on a piece of paper and handed it to him Slavik was offended, tore the portrait into small pieces and threw them on Andrey’s desk. (Andrei should say, "Sorry, I thought you'd like it") - and remove trash from your desk.)

Any trifle can lead to a quarrel. When you're ready to quarrel with a friend, remember that he has many positive qualities, because that's why you became friends with him. Probably, at the moment one of you is wrong. But thatбы to understand who exactly, you need time to figure out▁Поэтому. So tell yourself "stop!", don't heat up the atmosphere to the limit, and say out loud: "Talk,let's talk about it tomorrow" And tomorrow - you'll see! - everything will be different.
Now I want to introduce you to one very interesting story, "The Millennium", which was written by A. Neelova
On the shore of a cheerful babbling stream grew a pretty thousand-color flower.
One day, a trickle, playing, splashed a few drops on it. The thousand-colored man got angry and shouted: "Ugly stream, how dare you splash! I got all the dress wet! Get out, I don’t want to play with you anymore".
- Don't be angry, I did it by accident, - the trickle apologized. - Be patient a little, the sun will dry you up alive.
But the thousand-color didn't want to listen to anything and didn't forgive the stream. The stream was offended and turned the other way. Spring was replaced by a sultry summer... The thousand-color was exhausted from thirst; its pretty green dress was dusty and covered with dirty spots. The half-withered flower had difficulty recognizing the once beautiful thousand-color. I remembered here the flower about my old friend and, sighing, said:
"If there was a trickle with me now, it would give me something to drink, and I would again become as pretty as before, a flower".
I decided to call a thousand-colored tree here and ask him for forgiveness, but out of weakness I couldn’t shout loudly... At that time, as if on purpose, there was neither rain nor dew - our flower faded more and more day by day, and soon the children found it in the grass completely dry.
This is such a sad fairy tale and at the same time instructive.
• If you were a stream, would you forgive a flower?
• Do you think a flower would change if a trickle forgave it?
• What advice would you give to someone who doesn't know how to forgive friends?
Remember good, but forget evil M. Skrabtsova
There is no need to save evil in your soul,
It's already around.
Don't give yourself to him,
Live, forgiving and loving.
Try to forget evil for a moment -
And life will immediately become easier!
Evil disappears instantly,
When we remember good.
Now, in order to get to know each other better, we will play a game "The wind blows on that..."

{module Yandex}
The teacher says the phrase: "The wind blows on him..."

• who has many friends.
• who doesn't like to quarrel.
• who is not rude to elders.
• who often shares with his comrades what he has.
• who knows how to give compliments.
• who never calls names.
• who is not involved in brawls.
• who doesn't lie.
• who doesn't hesitate to apologize.
• who knows how to quickly forget resentment.
• who knows how to be friends.
• who knows how to forgive

Children who take this phrase personally go out to the board, line up hardly, join hands and, when the teacher utters the next phrase, blow together, pretending to be the wind.
You see, despite the small shortcomings, we are each a kind, respectful person in our own way, who knows how to forgive insults.
In conclusion, I suggest you read the message.
Cards are attached to the magnetic board, rotated with the back side. The teacher turns card after card in any order until the children realize what proverb is written on them.
Answer. As it comes back to haunt you, so it will respond. How do you understand the proverb?
I would like to offer you 1 more task that you will complete at home - before going to bed, remember all the people you were offended by for something, and try to mentally forgive them.
I really want you to complete 1 more task: on a piece of paper, ask for forgiveness from your classmates and place them in a box. After the lesson, the "postman" will deliver them to the addressee.
That's where our class is over. Be tolerant of each other.

Sources and literature used

1 Parables for children

2, Coolest hour Yaroslavl Development Academy 2008

3. Mishchenkova L.V. 25 developmental classes for third graders. Yaroslavl. Development Academy 2006