primary school teacher
MBOU SECONDARY SCHOOL NO. 1
s. Uspenskoe
Purpose:
- teach children to be hospitable hosts and good guests.
- Introduce children to the rules of behavior when visiting
- Develop guest culture
Equipment: poster of Owl - Main Character of the Event.
This event can be held in different ways: either in the form of a conversation, or with a play on the situation, or, for example, like this: children are given poems in advance asking them to prepare for the performance; guys in pairs and threes prepare - learn poetry and draw the hero they are talking about.
The teacher prepares a poster of Owl holding an open book. At the beginning of the lesson, the book is empty, but after the next group of children speaks, the rules are entered into it. So, by the end of the lesson, Owl’s book will be filled out, this will be the result of the lesson.
Event progress
Today we are for all of you, Everyone visited the guests
Let's spend an extracurricular hour, I understand that.
We want to tell you when we meet, It was nice for you there
How to behave while visiting. And others are pleased?
In a bright class About owners and children
We'll tell you to listen to us without any pretense.
Honest people have gathered - Remember everything
Touched up your ears. And wiggle it on your own!
Teacher. Many of you go to visit. And do you know how to properly invite, accept an invitation, keep guests busy, pick up a gift? Today we will tell you how to do it correctly.
- Listen to poem 3. by Boguslavskaya and tell me what celebration we'll be at today?
Today's birthday is Ah, if you could
Not anyone's, but mine. Into my house knock!
And I run quickly Let it be without a gift even -
Home, home, home. Smile enough for me:
Gifts await me there I have become older today,
From all my friends: And maybe smarter.
Machines, books, brands - And seems stronger!
Not a room is a museum! And seems longer!
I'll thank everyone And I think I'll grow up!
And I'll call you to the table.
Teacher. Today we'll talk about how a birthday boy should behave at his birthday party and guests invited to the holiday.
- On this day, everyone honors the hero of the occasion: he is surrounded with attention, kind words are spoken, poems are composed in his honor and songs are sung.
- But how should guests behave so as not to overshadow the birthday party?
- Let's remember the rules of conduct when visiting.
1 rule: Don't come visit without an invitation.
Visit, dear friends (I have to tell you),
They walk, without a doubt, only by invitation.
If you came uninvited, it's strange for the owners!
Since they didn’t invite you to their place, it means they weren’t expecting you at all!
Rule 2: To be a good guest, you need to be friends over time.
And appear on the threshold without delay, exactly on time.
- Do not arrive before the appointed time.
The Fox called the guests and became confused and sad
And he worries, fusses, And the Raccoon didn’t let me in
The beauty around me is encouraging I was only able to say:
And it doesn’t take my eyes off the oven: - I was waiting for you later...
Bakes pies for guests... Unpleasant and raccoon,
Only suddenly the Raccoon came. And the Fox is sad about something
But the fox is not ready, Smart guest, although invited
The guest was met harshly. Doesn't come too early.
Rule 3 - When should you come to the holiday?
Is it polite to be late for a holiday, as you might think?
- Don't be late for the appointed time.
The puppy invited ducklings, It’s a shame, no doubt.
Bunny, kitten... If you were invited to visit,
The guests have been sitting for a long time, you need to not dig
They're only waiting for Piglet. And at a certain hour
Finally he appeared, everyone must gather together.
I sat down at the table and didn’t apologize. You, so as not to offend your friends
What a behavior! Don't keep yourself waiting.
4 rule Don't bring your friends with you unless they were invited.
| One day the Ram of two Seagulls Invited me to a cup of tea. He waits and waits, and suddenly the sky It became dark around. A flock of Seagulls came in To drink tea with the Sheep. |
But the Ram ran away faster, I didn't invite them again. You must, friends, remember: We need our friends You didn't take you with you to visit, If they weren't invited. |
- Guests finally come to see you What words can and should you greet guests?
Practical work:
Children are divided into groups and write down greeting options.
Welcome...
Mercy please...
Come in, please...
We are very glad to see you..
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Teacher. It's customary to give gifts for a birthday. Who gave it and when, the first gift and how it happened, we don't know. But I vouch: one person gave something valuable to another, saw gratitude in his face and made the greatest discovery that giving is maybe more joyful than taking.
- Everyone knows how nice it is to receive exactly what you want as a gift when the giver guesses your wish And it also happens as in the poem:
4 rule Choose a gift for the owner, not for yourself.
Guests came to Bunny A fox - wing of a chicken.
And they brought a gift: The hare became very sad
Bear - honey can, Because he wanted cabbage leaf.
Hedgehog - marsh berries bottle, Try not to forget,
Squirrel - a pile of delicious cones, What should be given to whom
Cat - Grey Mouse Bunch To Make Everyone Pleasant.
Heron - frog's foot, that's the main thing, okay?
- Guys, when a birthday boy is given a gift, what should the birthday boy do in return?
- Right, thank!
- Even a block of ice will melt from the word warm... (thank you)
Grandfather said about his granddaughter:
- Eka annoyance!
I gave her a briefcase,
I see - I'm very glad!
But you can’t remain silent like a fish
Well, I would say "thank you"
And what a word - very expensive!
Let's list with what words can a birthday boy thank you?
- Thank you, thank you, thank you so much...
5 rule After presenting a gift, you need to invite guests to the room.
- Don't touch the owner's things.
| Bear Mikhail He was very curious. And visiting the Rhino He's from the very threshold Runs to the TV - He's in a hurry to watch a movie But doesn't know how to turn it on: Started pressing buttons, I pressed it in the wrong place, absolutely Broke something important! |
Angry Rhino, Kicked the guest out of the door. I ask, friends, consider: Your name is visiting - go, But don't turn on the devices, Do not press buttons in them. If you want to watch the film, Ask the owner. Let him turn on everything he needs - So have fun together! |
6 rule Don't be stubborn when visiting.
| Wolf came to visit Hare - Everyone was sitting at home. - I want to play football! - The wolf told his friends. - It's raining outside! - Everyone said it together! - Still want to go to football! - I need to run! |
And when the people are forest I didn't agree with him, He went to his home - Very angry. Only the Wolf is not right at all, Really, guys? Since the game is not a joy for everyone - Everyone is not to blame. |
- And what games can you play at a birthday party, while making the birthday boy feel good first, since it is his birthday?
Caravay Game - Let's pick a birthday boy and sing him a Caravay song.
Children stand in a circle, in the center is the birthday boy.
Like Tanya's name day
We baked a loaf.
This is the height,
This is the bottom,
This is the width
This is dinner.
Loaf, loaf,
Choose whoever you want.
I love everyone, of course
But... is the best.
7 rule Don't be a scandal or capricious.
| One day one of the Seagulls I came to visit Hedgehog. She started making trouble - She threw everyone into confusion! The bird was capricious. And you can’t calm her down! |
Shame on you! No good Behave like this, friends! You have no right To whims and scandal. If something is not to your liking, - Go away! The ball is over! |
8 rule Don't scatter the owner's things.
| The hare was visiting Mouse, Scattered books everywhere, I laid out toys around Threw all the pillows on the floor I didn’t clean it up after myself And he jumped away. |
There is no need to do this! Want to take something, You have to be polite, Permissions to ask. Allowed - then take, Watch children's books. And play with toys, But put it back! |
Rule 9 Don't distract the owner's attention only to yourself.
Many guests gathered at Kotenok: Hares, Foxes, Jerzy, two Mousetails.
The squirrel also galloped there.
Only she didn’t play with the guests
I thought: "Since I came to Kotenok,".
Let him put off other things!
He should only play with me.
Just treat me at the table.
And let the rest go -
They will be called again someday.
I won't come - they'll play without me!
Well, why don't they understand,
What is most important to the Kitten is me -
He and I have been friends for two weeks now!
So she sat stubbornly in the corner
I didn’t run to the table with the guests!
And then I was offended by Kotenka!
Belka received little attention!
Only, guys, I’ll say without a doubt:
I don't understand her behavior.
Every Host - Everyone Needs to Understand -
I must pay attention to the guests.
Play and laugh with everyone!
So you can't be offended by this!
Polite Hide and Seek Game
We'll play a little,
And now let's get into a circle
You put on a bandage,
Who called you - find out
Kids stand in a circle, leading blindfolded - in the center One child in the circle says a polite word, and the one leading by voice must guess who said the word.
10 rule When leaving, thank the owner.
You've had fun on the road. Don't forget you cordially
They ate, sang and danced, Praise the hostess for everything.
We rested, frolicked, For attention and fate
They began to gather together. For a hospitable home.
In conclusion, of course.Wish the house happiness...
I will remind you without hiding: And we will part on that.
Teacher. A treat is prepared for the holidays. All people should be able to behave well at the table.
Let's remember rules of conduct at the table:
- When sitting down at the table, you need to wash your hands thoroughly. You need to sit at the table straight, but at the tip of a chair and without leaning against its back. You can’t put your elbows on the table. You can’t dangle your feet or push your neighbors.
- You need to be able to use the device correctly (never eaten with a knife: spoon, fork and knife should be left in a plate or placed on a special stand after eating).
- You can take bread with your hands. In addition to bread, they take pies, cookies, sweets, and fruits with their hands.
- Fruits made from compote must be eaten with teaspoons. The seeds are carefully spat out into a spoon placed near the lips themselves. Place the seeds in a plate or a special saucer.
- You cannot take food from a common dish with your spoon or fork; for this purpose, the common dishes must have special spoons.
- You can’t go through the pieces lying on the common dish; you need to take what lies closer to you.
- If you come across bay leaves, peppers, bones, etc. in your food, all this should be left on the edge of the plate. You cannot leave stains and crumbs on the tablecloth. You need to eat without haste, but not too slowly, and keep up with others.
- It's not nice to leave food on a plate, it's better to ask for a small portion in advance. You can talk while eating, but not with your mouth full.
- Should not read with food - it is disrespect for people sitting at the table.
- Coming out of the table, we must thank the hosts.
Summing up
- You and I now have our own book, Guest Rules of Conduct.
- And what does it mean to "be a hospitable host"? The hospitable host is always cheerful and affable. He sometimes has to sacrifice his interests to please guests: give up an entertaining toy, give the most interesting role in the game, not start games that are uninteresting to all the assembled guys, not be offended by the guests and not quarrel with them.
The teacher leads to the conclusion that the behavior of the guests and hosts determines how the holiday will go and what mood the audience will remain.
- Let there always be magic words in your well-mannered person's way of life. With them, even a sad or offended person can be restored to good spirits, cheer up.
