“Good or Bad” Club “I’m Going to Visit”

Purpose:

• Teach children to be hospitable hosts and good guests.
• To introduce children to the rules of conduct at a party
• Developing Guest Culture

Equipment:A poster depicting Filin, the main character of the event.

This event can be held in different ways: either in the form of a conversation, or with the play of the situation, or, for example, so: children are given poems in advance with a request to prepare for the performance; children in pairs and threes prepare – learn poems and draw the hero about whom they tell.
The teacher prepares a poster with a picture of Filin holding an open book. At the beginning of the lesson, the book is empty, but after the performance of another group of children, the rules are entered into it. So, by the end of the lesson, Filin’s book will be filled out, and this will be the result of the lesson.

Progress of the event

We're all here today, all of you, all of you.
We'll have an extra-curricular hour. I understand that.
We wanted to tell you when we met, it was nice for you.
How to be a guest. Do others like it?
In a bright class about the owners and children
We will listen to you without any trouble.
You have an honest people, remember everything.
Ears pricked. Get on your shoulder!

Teacher.Many of you are visiting. And do you know how to invite to a visit, accept an invitation, take guests, pick up a gift? Today we will tell you how to do it correctly.
- Listen to poem 3. Tell us about Bogoslavsky, what holiday will we be attending today?

Today is my birthday, if you could.
Not someone else's, but mine. In my house knock!
And I'm running faster, even without a present.
Home, home, home. Smile enough.
There are gifts waiting for me. I'm older today.
From all my friends: And maybe smarter.
Cars, books, stamps - and it seems stronger!
Not a room, a museum! And it seems longer!
I'll thank everyone and I think I'm older!
I'll call you to the table.

Teacher. Today we will talk about how a birthday person should behave on his birthday and guests invited to the holiday.
- On this day, everyone honors the culprit of the celebration: they surround him with attention, say kind words, write poems in his honor and sing songs.
- And how to behave guests, so as not to overshadow the birthday party?
- Let's remember the rules of conduct at a party.

Rule 1:Don't come over uninvited.
Dear friends (I have to tell you)
No doubt they only go by invitation.
If you come uninvited – for the hosts it is strange!
If you weren’t invited, you weren’t expected!

Rule 2: To be a good guest, you need to be friends with time.
And come to the door without delay, exactly on time.

• Don't come before the deadline.

The fox was confused, saddened.
And he squirms, he fusses, and the raccoon does not let
The beauty of the whole thing is that I could say:
And from the oven does not take my eyes off: I waited for you later ...
Bake cakes to guests... And the Raccoon,
Only then did the Raccoon come. And the fox is sad.
And the fox is not ready, a clever guest, though invited,
The guest met harshly. Doesn't come too early.

Rule 3: When should I come to the party?
Is it polite to be late for the holiday, as you think?

• Do not be late by the appointed time.

Invited Puppy Ducklings, shameless, no doubt.
Bunny, kitten... If you were invited to visit,
Guests are all sitting for a long time.
Only the Piglet is waiting. And at a certain hour.
At last he appeared, Friendly to all.
Sit down at the table, didn't apologize. Don't hurt your friends,
What a behavior! Don't make yourself wait.

ruleDon’t bring your friends with you unless they are invited.

- You've finally got guests. What words can and should be used to meet guests?

Practical work:
Children are divided into groups and write down greeting options.

Welcome. Welcome.
Please be kind.
Please come in...
Nice to see you. .

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Teacher. It is customary to give gifts for a birthday. Who and when made the first gift and how it happened, we do not know. But I can assure you that one person gave something valuable to another, saw in his face gratitude and made the greatest discovery that giving is perhaps more joyful than taking.
- Everyone knows how nice it is to receive exactly what you want as a gift when the giver guesses your wish. It's just like in a poem:

ruleChoose a gift for the owner, not for yourself.

Guests came to the Hare and the fox - the wing of the chicken.
And the gift was brought: The rabbit became very sad,
Bear - honey can, because he wanted a cabbage leaf.
Hedgehog - swamp berries bottle, try not to forget,
Squirrels are a pile of delicious cones, what should be given to whom?
The cat is a bunch of gray mice. To make everyone happy.
Heron is a frog's foot, That's the point, okay?

- Guys, when a birthday boy is given a gift, what should the birthday boy do in return?
- That's right, thank you!

• Even a lump of ice is growing from the word warm... (thanks)

My grandfather said about my granddaughter:
- What a shame!
I gave her a briefcase.
I see it's a pleasure!
But you can't be silent like a fish.
Well, I'd say thank you.
And the word is very expensive!

Let's list what words can thank the birthday boy?
- Thank you, thank you, thank you very much.

Rule 5 After giving a gift, invite guests to the room.

• Don't touch the owner's things.

6Don't be stubborn at a party.

- And what games can you play at a birthday party, while the birthday boy was pleasant in the first place, because it is his birthday?
A game of loafing. Let's choose a birthday boy and sing him the song "Caravay".
Children stand in a circle, in the center - a birthday boy.

Like Tanina's birthday.
We baked a loaf.
That's the height.
That's the low ground.
That's the width.
Such dinners.
A loaf, a loaf,
Choose who you want.
I love everyone, of course.
Here's the best.

7Don't be scandalous or capricious.

8thDon't throw away the owner's things.

9thDo not distract the attention of the owner only on yourself.

Many guests gathered at the Kitten: Hares, Fox, Jerzy, two Mouse.
Squirrel jumped in there too.
Except she didn't play with the guests.
I thought, "Since I came to the kitten,
Let him put off other things!
He only has to play with me.
It's just me at the table.
And let the rest of you go.
They'll be called again someday.
I'm not coming, they'll play without me!
Why don't they understand?
What matters most to the kitten is me.
We've been friends for two weeks! ?
I sat stubbornly in the corner,
I didn't go to the table with the guests!
And I was offended by Kitty!
Squirrel got little attention!
Just, guys, I'll tell you without a doubt:
I don't understand her behavior.
Every owner needs to understand.
You have to pay attention to your guests.
Playing and laughing with everyone!
So you can't be offended!

Polite hide-and-seek game

We're gonna play a little bit.
And now we're in a circle.
You wear a bandage,
Who called you, find out.

Children stand in a circle, leading blindfolded - in the center. One child in the circle utters a polite word, and the leader in the voice must guess who said the word.

ruleWhen you leave, thank the owner.

You guys had some fun. Don't forget your heart.
We ate and sang and danced and praised the hostess.
They rested, frolic, for attention and fate,
We got together. To a hospitable house.
In conclusion, of course. Wish the house happiness...
I'll remind you without hiding: Let's break it up.

Teacher.There's a treat for the holidays. Everyone should be able to behave well at the table.
Let's remember.Rules of behavior at the table:

• When sitting at the table, wash your hands thoroughly. Sit at the table should be straight, but at the tip of the chair and not falling to its back. You can't put your elbows on the table. You can't kick your feet, push your neighbors.
• You have to be able to use the device properly.(Never eat with a knife: a spoon, fork and knife after eating should be left on a plate or put on a special stand).
• Bread can be taken with your hands. In addition to bread, hands take cakes, cookies, candies, fruits.
• Fruits from compote should be eaten in teaspoons. The bones are carefully spit out into a spoon, brought to the lips themselves. Put the bones in a plate or a special plate.
• Food from a common dish can not be taken with your own spoon or fork, for this purpose there should be special spoons on common dishes.
• You can’t go through the pieces lying on a common dish, you need to take what lies closer to you.
• If bay leaf, pepper, bones, etc. fall into the dish, all this should be left on the edge of the plate. You can not leave spots and crumbs on the tablecloth. Eat without haste, but not too slowly, do not lag behind others.
• It is not nice to leave food on the plate, it is better to ask for a small portion in advance. You can talk while eating, but not with your mouth full.
• Do not read while eating - this is disrespectful to people sitting at the table.
• When leaving the table, thank the hosts.

Taking stock

- Now we have our own book "Rules of behavior at a party."
- What does it mean to be a hospitable host? The hospitable host is always cheerful and friendly. He sometimes has to sacrifice his interests to make the guests happy: to give up an entertaining toy, to give the most interesting role in the game, not to start games that are not interesting for all the gathered guys, not to offend the guests and not to quarrel with them.
The teacher concludes that the behavior of guests and hosts depends on how the holiday will be held and what mood will remain in those present.
- In your life there are always magic words. With their help, you can even a sad or offended person return a good mood, lift the mood.